"If there was a button that killed everyone I hated, I probably wouldn't press it ... but if there was a button that killed everyone who hated me, I'd press it without hesitation."
We’re not lovers, Iggy! We’re not partners! I’m one of many, many people he has casual sex with every couple of months. I have a stupid, pointless one-sided crush on him that will never amount to anything and my opinion on whomever else he sleeps with is irrelevant. Do you understand?
He doesn’t. But it’s good that he doesn’t. It makes things simple. You’re a hopeless romantic, so I don’t expect you to understand our dynamic. We’ve discussed it. We both know where we stand.
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Look, other people are coming to defend her, so you can let it go.
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We're talking about this.
Do you prefer not knowing anything about his other lovers? It's okay to say so. I'm not judging, seriously.
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We’re not lovers, Iggy! We’re not partners! I’m one of many, many people he has casual sex with every couple of months. I have a stupid, pointless one-sided crush on him that will never amount to anything and my opinion on whomever else he sleeps with is irrelevant. Do you understand?
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He cares about you.
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Anyway, you're still allowed to have feelings about all of this. It's complex! Especially if you don't really know how to feel about one of them.
...like maybe you think they hate you.
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Murphy doesn’t hate you. Murphy hates himself.
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I'm using a totally not personal example!
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But you haven't answered my question.
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You said "blah blah he's not my partner" and I asked if you prefer not to know about any of his lovers.
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Look, I'm not saying how you feel is wrong, sweetie, I'm just trying to understand.
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I won't force it. But you're wrong - he cares.
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